Marriage in religion Buddha

Marriage is mating between men - man and woman to be spouse. a couple is believing in Buddha can choose between lives is having family or not having family. If couple wish having family hence people can married with couple its the choice. On the contrary if people choose not to having family, hence people can live in shrine as Priest.

Before married required [by] ripe preparation. The side of man and woman ought to do is each other watcher to other party to know excess and lacking of couple. So if there is problem - problem emerging later the couple can overcome it.

Which must be paid attention by man to woman, if there is no problem with appearance, age, descendant is:
1. Confidence at religion
2. Ethic/moral
3. Education
4. Skilled of woman
5. Emotional maturity
6. Wisdom

For man which must be paid attention is:

1. Confidence at religion
2. Ethic/moral
3. Education
4. Work
5. Responsibility
6. Wisdom

Confidence at religion : Be better if wife husband has the same confidence, mean same - same believed in Buddha. After both believing in Buddha hence as proper his(its both comprehending and executes teaching of the Buddha in life one day - day and happy life.

Ethic/moral : Ethic/moral must become main attention, because without good morale of the man car supposing without brake ( uncontrollably ). Ethic/moral cannot be formed in one or two day, but is cumulative development of itself man. Morale would easily destroy because greed, dislike, and stupidity, however present era of a lot praises them rich, he/she said "Greedy is Good"

Education : This time is better if formal education is made inner measure to look for life couple, caused by education difference which too far will influence harmonious of itself wife husband.

Skilled of woman ( woman) : a woman must be clever manages household before entering marriage ladder. For example; woman should be able to manage house, ripe, shopping to market, arranges money, including becoming good mother.

Emotional maturity ( woman) : This thing shows level of adulthood a woman. a immature woman will claim excessive attention from its(the husband, spoiled, thin-skinned, headstrong, egoist ,etc. a matured woman of its(the emotion would more patient, in facing emerging household problem.


Work ( man) : Work is a real part necessary for man - man. a woman will not will married with man who don’t have home. Of course era now quite a few working woman, but natural of man is earn life for its the family.

Responsibility ( man) : This thing is personality of someone men. Responsibility is thing needed to takes care of harmonious of household, especially man responsibility - man as a family head.

Wisdom : Really business - be really to had wisdom in life this is very profits life hereinafter in this and in the future. By having wisdom hence all decisions taken not because of like/not to like, not because of following - join with others, but because good to all party(sides in now and also a period of which will come.

Why should dating of vital importance as gestation period. Why should usable dating as orientation week or a period of character hawker together couple. Every man has different personality pattern, and personality is not guaranteed of the someone fits in with personality of someone who selected it as life couple, therefore a period of dating of vital importance.